Not having enough sex in your relationship? This is why

Hi peeps? Hope you all are having  great fun with your spouses? *Blinks* I'm going to be a little raw this time. What do you think people? Do you have great sex with your spouse or Is your bedroom the most boring place on Planet Earth? See how you can deal with it. How  do you have sex? how often? ..twice a week? once a month? once in 6 months...? Every couple's sex life is different.
Often times one partner seems to love sex than the other, many people usually try to figure out whats wrong with their partner, whereas maybe the problem could be you.

Lemme start by saying that SEX is a great gift from God!  ...wait a minute, did I just say that? ...YES I DID. Buh trust me you need to be married before engaging into sex!

A different biorhythm 

 
If u like to stay up late at night, that is probably when your libido will start to rise while
other people are sleeping. If your partner has the same rhythm there is no problem but if he/she is more of an early bird, spontaneous sex will not happen frequently.
U can try planing a time to have sex.

Because u talk too much about it

 
If u feel like you're not having enough sex in your relationship, try to avoid
talking about it in your bedroom. As it should be a place to create romance and not be associated with nagging. Keep this kinda discussions for neutral ground.

Because u don't talk about it

 
Yes too much talk is not good but dying in silence  is certainly not the solution.
Communication is the key to a successful relationship. Sex can be a sensitive subject so
try to be calm and relaxed when approaching your partner.

Too much alcohol

 
If u like to drink a glass of wine once in a while, no problem. But when u drink frequently
it will not boost your sex drive. Besides nobody likes their partner to fall asleep halfway foreplay.

Same old, same old
Maybe u have the feeling like its just getting boring, when u can already predict your partners next move under the sheets. Try new positions, play sex games, find new places for your love gospel or watch porn together
if that's what you're into. There are so many things you can try, so stimulate your creativity.

Workaholic
Waking up, going to work, do overtime, come home and send few mails, go to bed with your laptop.
This lifestyle will create distance between you and your partner. Try to find the right balance between work and relaxation.

Masturbation
U feel like having sex, but your partner is not in the mood, and u tried masturbating. Know that masturbation will keep u away from your partner sexually, as you will feel satisfied somehow. Its better to be patient and wait till u both in the mood.

Laziness:

You feel like having sex a lot, and you're just not the type to start things yourself. If your partner should always have to make first move, he/she will also get tired of that.
Have confidence and feel sexy, keep the bedroom exciting.