Saturday, 4 July 2015



You absolutely can’t be too dependent on each other. Dependency might feel romantic and sweet but it’s not. It will ruin your relationship.
1.      You need to define yourself, knowing who you are and knowing what kind of relationship you want from your spouse
2.       You need to devote your time in your relationship by giving  little of your time no matter how busy you maybe
3.       Considering the fact that you’re going for a relationship, you need to engage yourself  with  books, researches and associating with the right people who would help you grow mentally, emotionally etc
4.       You need to give in your best, not by only impressing but b making sure things are in right order
5.       It’s not always good enough to let the opposite sex know your feelings because it might be taken for granted, you may find yourself giving too much to opposite sex, once you find yourself in that shoe quickly pull –off. This shows that the opposite sex is not into you and doesn’t find you emotionally attached to you.
6.       Make sure you are on” point” you need to always look good, get a sexy look by wearing attractive clothes e.g. for ladies, you need to work on your physical appearance, always keep fit so to get the kind of physique you want, you also need to work on your skin, get a dermatologist to know the kind of cream suitable for your skin, you need to glow in your appearance. Get your hair done; make sure you know what soothes your face. Don’t just wear any kind of hair and make-up because you see other ladies do it, wear the hair and make-up that suitable for your looks
7.       For guys, your physical appearance matter a lot, sorry guys I’m going to ponder more on your looks. Some guys do not bother to take good care of themselves, they prefer to look haggard because they feel they are not admired by anyone, this could promote inferiority complex because they feel they can't be loved by any lady
8.       Get a clean cut as to barbing your hair; do not leave your beards unshaved. Always keep your underneath clean. Change your under wears  regularly. make sure your clothes are always ironed. maintain a good personal hygiene as to your laundry, surroundings etc. Use good body deodorants that can absorb your sweat. Wear body fitted clothes with some attractive colors like white, blue,black etc depending on your complexion.
9.       You need to be financially stable, you need to get yourself engaged in something, get yourself busy so as not to always choke your opposite sex by doing so,  your opposite sex will always miss something about you and wants to get your company by all means. Do something special and unforgettable, spice up your relationship by conversing about possible things that will enhance your relationship.
Don’t get it twisted, there’s no perfect relationship anywhere, you need to work towards achieving it. You need not to get confused on how to start working for a long-lasting relationship all you need to do is to re-adjust and think wisely.

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