You absolutely can’t be too
dependent on each other. Dependency might feel romantic and sweet but it’s not.
It will ruin your relationship.
1. You need to define
yourself, knowing who you are and knowing what kind of relationship you
want from your spouse
2. You
need to devote your time in your relationship by giving little of your time no matter how busy you
maybe
3. Considering
the fact that you’re going for a relationship, you need to engage yourself with
books, researches and associating with the right people who would help
you grow mentally, emotionally etc
4. You
need to give in your best, not by only impressing but b making sure things are
in right order
5. It’s
not always good enough to let the opposite sex know your feelings because it
might be taken for granted, you may find yourself giving too much to opposite
sex, once you find yourself in that shoe quickly pull –off. This shows that the
opposite sex is not into you and doesn’t find you emotionally attached to you.
6. Make
sure you are on” point” you need to always look good, get a sexy look by
wearing attractive clothes e.g. for ladies, you need to work on your physical
appearance, always keep fit so to get the kind of physique you want, you also
need to work on your skin, get a dermatologist to know the kind of cream
suitable for your skin, you need to glow in your appearance. Get your hair
done; make sure you know what soothes your face. Don’t just wear any kind of
hair and make-up because you see other ladies do it, wear the hair and make-up that suitable
for your looks
7. For
guys, your physical appearance matter a lot, sorry guys I’m going to ponder
more on your looks. Some guys do not bother to take good care of themselves, they
prefer to look haggard because they feel they are not admired by anyone, this could promote
inferiority complex because they feel they can't be loved by any lady
8. Get
a clean cut as to barbing your hair; do not leave your beards unshaved. Always
keep your underneath clean. Change your under wears regularly. make sure your clothes are always ironed. maintain a good personal hygiene as to your laundry, surroundings etc. Use good body deodorants that can absorb your sweat. Wear body fitted clothes with some attractive colors like white, blue,black etc depending on your complexion.
9.
You need to be financially stable, you need to
get yourself engaged in something, get yourself busy so as not to always choke
your opposite sex by doing so, your opposite sex will always miss something
about you and wants to get your company by all means. Do something special and
unforgettable, spice up your relationship by conversing about possible things
that will enhance your relationship.
Don’t get it
twisted, there’s no perfect relationship anywhere, you need to work towards
achieving it. You need not to get confused on how to start working for a long-lasting relationship all you need to do is to re-adjust and think wisely.
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